Press Release Summary = Is every day a nightmare in your relationship?
Is the person you are living or working with finding fault with
everything you say or do? Or are you finding fault with everything
that person does? Do you wonder how it got this way?
Press Release Body = \"I used to be that way,\" says Jan Tincher,
Master Neuro-Linguistic Programmer and Hypnotherapist.
I was finding fault right and left. Our baby was a year old, the
finances weren\'t great, I felt like I was being taken for granted,
and I wanted more. More from my spouse, more from my life, more
from me.
So, I complained -- about everything. There wasn\'t anything I didn\'t
find fault with. One day I woke up and realized what \"I\" had created
-- a living hell in my own home.
I couldn\'t believe it. How my husband could stand being around me, I didn\'t know.
So I started making changes in my life. Of course, it didn\'t happen
quickly. I had some issues that didn\'t go away overnight.
So, I started with a joke that night when we were driving to a party.
I laughed and laughed, admittedly more than was warranted. He looked
at me and said, \"Is something going on here I don\'t know about?\"
I said, \"Yes, honey. I am practicing laughing. I want to bring
laughter back into our marriage.\"
He didn\'t say anything for a moment, and I started to worry. Finally,
he stopped at a stop sign and turned to me and said, \"You\'re going
to have to tell a funnier joke than that.\"
I understood what he wasn\'t saying, but it was the best olive branch
I had ever been offered. The next morning, he woke me up with a
kiss. It was the first voluntary kiss I had received in a long time,
and I cried. He just held me, then out of the blue, he told me a
joke.
I think that was his way of telling me he was there for me and he always would be.
If your marriage, your partnership, your love is on the rocks, don\'t
give up. Find a way to make things different. As with every problem
AND solution, it all starts inside.
Be good to yourself and start looking for that solution today.
Jan Tincher, Master Neuro-Linguistic Programmer and Hypnotherapist,
has written several articles
on love and relationships, and she can help you with this and
much more! She has also written a powerful new ecourse
\"6 Short Weeks To A Successful Relationship!\". Her web site is
for people who want to improve their lives and their relationships!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/relationship/articles.htm
If you are interested in her ecourse, go here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/relationshipEcourse/offer.php
For More Information Contact:
Jan Tincher, Master Neuro-Linguistic Programmer & Hypnotherapist
Jan@tameyourbrain.com
Tame Your Brain!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com
2009
